When I entered these specialized classes, I met children who not only had an intellectual disability, but also great physical difficulties of the hemiplegia, paraplegia, visual impairment, epilepsy seizures types.
Montessori is revolutionary!
As a result, these children were always accompanied or assisted and very often things were done for them. And I come in and say, “Well, we’re going to stop all this! “I triggered a wave of panic! And suddenly, Montessori became dangerous! I knew we were on the eve of a great revolution! And then I realized that the greatest work to be done is not with children, but with adults. You know, it’s the adults that need to be changed, not the children!
It is true that we currently have a culture of control and fear. The more we want to protect the child, the more we control him.
And yet, we want the child, where he is now and with what he can do, to develop his confidence.
But how can we promote the child’s autonomous development if we constantly short-circuit his or her development, even in safe situations? How can the child not doubt himself when we constantly intervene to “correct” what we too commonly call “error”? And how can we open up learning spaces for the child in a culture where we have become accustomed to “talking” when we could simply “show”.
Trust is not a feeling, it is about observation
In our culture we think a lot but we observe little. However, careful observation of a situation can allow us to make an appropriate decision.
However, we ended up blending trust with a feeling. In everyday language we often use this “feeling” when we say, for example, “I feel that I can trust you”. However, the challenge is not to “feel” which would leave a lot of room for risk and uncertainty, but to observe the availability of a capacity in relation to a given situation. Thus observation makes it possible to assess the reliability of an ability to deploy in a situation that can mobilize it.
Example: little girl and the tray.
The child realized 2 things:
- That dropping the object was not a big deal! She could pick up and then start again. At first she was waiting for us to come. She observed thinking she was going to be scolded, but no, we encouraged her to pick as much as she could.
- That she could carry the basket alone from one point to another without spilling.
I couldn’t describe his joy with words!
Why was this child’s joy made possible?
Because there was minimal or no intervention at all
Whatever the child’s difficulties, whether to acquire useful knowledge or to develop a skill, children all have their own rhythm and this rhythm must be respected.
Similar to a plant, their growth can be accompanied by a few favourable gestures. But the push will ultimately come on its own. If you want to provoke it, the harvest will only be compromised.
The teacher followed the same path as the child
We had to stop his momentum to rescue the child more than once!
And then one day, they understood that the child proceeds by trial and error in order to carry out an activity. By repeating multiple times the sum of gestures that can lead to a result, he acquires the awareness of the time required to actualize a realization and the patience to bring it to completion.
Thanks to the observation of the children, the fear has disappeared and especially the false belief that to be a good teacher you have to help the children at all times.
The atmosphere of both classes has completely changed.
The place of the adult in Montessori pedagogy: what to remember
- Trust is not a feeling, it is about observation
- No or few interventions unless there is a “real” danger
My gift to you
“Unleash the child’s potential and you will transform the world with him” Maria Montessori